Dumped

hey guys. well u know how TH always says we're family so i guess i need some help. Alright, well i gotta give u the whole situation first. A girl named Lena was going out with a guy named Cameron. Over the summer they broke up and i started goin out with Lena 4 days ago. Just today she dumped me for Cameron. I really like this girl and i want her back. Any suggestions on how to get her back? I really need hlp

unfortuantly I dont, but woman can be a pain in teh ass when it comes to love
anyway if she dumped you for someone she broke up with shes not really doing it for love is she most likely populaity trend really. But if you think you like her alot then my suggestion just keep tryin dont be giving up. Not the Dragoon way brother.

I appereciate you coming to us for help Rocet it shows trust and belief. Remember you can come to us about anything we are all family.

ty Yami. ill try c how it works.

i think she was just useing you to get him jelous.
but your only young there is plenty of fish in the sea.

it cant be the jealousy theory. i just talked to her and she says that it wasnt because of the old boyfriend, it was because she thought of me just as a friend which is the exact opposite of before. she and the old boyfriend arent goin out and she is single yet she wont go back out with me! im really getting frustrated!

well whats better losing a friend or gaining a girl friend.
like i said there is load of fish in the sea and your only young.

wanat is right! Girls never really know what they want at that age!

Listen to Wanat, Rocet he has hit it on the nose.Listen to us old timers, we have been through similar or even same situations time and time again.It is crystal clear she got together with you to spite the boyfriend and make him jealous,or at least to boost her ego. And the best advice I can give is to close your ears and listen to her body language. For example if you try to touch her, lets say in a casual way and she is a cold fish forget about it (hold her hand or touch her hair), it is a lost cause.If thats not enough for you, get the story about her and the x from a mutual friend. Don't expect her to be honest about her feelings for this guy to you, cause she isn't honest even to herself about him, she is just trying to justify what went wrong cause nobody accepts their own fault in these fallouts,its always the other persons fault.Remember you are getting her side of the story.
Oh, most important, when she is with you she should not talk about him, but about you two instead. If everytime you get together all you talk about is this dude and their relationship, RUN. No kiddin I repeat...RUN. Don't play the role of the shoulder to cry on, let her girlfriends play that role.When she is with you all she should be focusing on is YOU.

P.S.: Even before I got to read your whole post, alarms started to go off in my head after the first two sentences. RUN lol .Listen to Wannat's advice man,there are other and many fish in the sea.She is damaged goods at this point, don't volunteer to pick up the pieces, its not your job.You should be seeking at your age to be having healthy fun in relationships and not to play amateur shrink (I have gone down that road more than once and I can tell you its a no win situation).

rider_xx wrote:
P.S.: Even before I got to read your whole post, alarms started to go off in my head after the first two sentences. RUN lol .Listen to Wannat's advice man,there are other and many fish in the sea.She is damaged goods at this point, don't volunteer to pick up the pieces, its not your job.You should be seeking at your age to be having healthy fun in relationships and not to play amateur shrink (I have gone down that road more than once and I can tell you its a no win situation).

Yeah like I said, girls that age, can be a pain in teh ass.

Yami wrote:

rider_xx wrote:
P.S.: Even before I got to read your whole post, alarms started to go off in my head after the first two sentences. RUN lol .Listen to Wannat's advice man,there are other and many fish in the sea.She is damaged goods at this point, don't volunteer to pick up the pieces, its not your job.You should be seeking at your age to be having healthy fun in relationships and not to play amateur shrink (I have gone down that road more than once and I can tell you its a no win situation).

Yeah like I said, girls that age, can be a pain in teh ass.

I was bad with women at that age

TH

Emperor Hidden wrote:

Yami wrote:

rider_xx wrote:
P.S.: Even before I got to read your whole post, alarms started to go off in my head after the first two sentences. RUN lol .Listen to Wannat's advice man,there are other and many fish in the sea.She is damaged goods at this point, don't volunteer to pick up the pieces, its not your job.You should be seeking at your age to be having healthy fun in relationships and not to play amateur shrink (I have gone down that road more than once and I can tell you its a no win situation).

Yeah like I said, girls that age, can be a pain in teh ass.

I was bad with women at that age

TH

I think it is safe to say that we all where awkward and a little lost at our first dealings with the fair sex.It is always trial and error I am afraid, and there are no formulas for guaranteed success.

hmm well if she is going 2 treat u like a baseball card then in my opition she is not worth it.